Friday, 18 January 2013
Cherished CCB Readers: I HAD sex with another guy because my partner was jealous and possessive
Now I am the one who is jealous because the ‘other guy’ is with her, not me.
I am 28 and have been with my partner for four years. We used to have heated arguments because he was so controlling, always wanting to know where I was and then accusing me of seeing another man. He...
complained if I wore low-necked tops or short skirts.
I was so unhappy I found comfort with another guy. We met at the children’s playground when I was there with my friend’s little girl. He was supervising his sister’s boy. It was pretty boring so we spent the time chatting to one another.
The guy at the playground went from being a friend to more than a friend, although he was already in a long-term relationship. They didn’t get on either and that is why he understood how I was feeling.
We started meeting up secretly, just talking at first. It was wonderful. Then the most natural thing in the world was to have sex whenever we could. The sex was magical too, even though I knew he was still with his girlfriend.
I totally fell for him and ended the relationship with my partner. He then told me how he didn’t feel as strongly for me as he thought he did. I was devastated.
After this blow I found comfort in my ex who took me back with open arms. He has changed and everything should be great, but I can’t stop thinking about the other guy.
He is on my mind every waking hour. I hate knowing that he is with her and not with me.